Common Problems faced by Introverts Part-2

Hello Pumkins!!

First of all, Happy New Year !! And Happy Diwali  to all my pumkins ✨❤.

How are you all ?! I hope you all are fine and healthy. 

I am really sorry. I couldn't update as per my promise 😕. I was stuck with my study and our festival Diwali. I had a great time with my family and friends. I hope you had too.

Let's get back to blog. 

Today I thought that I would be back on track of writing about being Introvert for few blogs. But I will continue 'DAD-The Superhero' series. 

Today's blog is 2nd part of Common problem faced by Introvert. Let's continue.

3) Outcast

I have seen and felt many a times that sometime people treat Introverts as outcasts like they don't exist. They will not let them or involve them in any discussion and even if they involve, they will not even let them speak or avoid them as if they don't exist.

I have felt this many a times, sometimes with my friends and classmates also. They just talk with each other and ignore me just like I am invisible or something. We would be sitting together yet I might be invisible for them. Still after then, what ?! They would tell me that why aren't I speaking or talking ?!

It feels being outcast and alone. That always makes me think that I am right that I like to be with myself, alone and happy. 

4) "Speak ! Speak !"

Another problem is that, people always advise us to speak more and more. I just don't understand that why people can't see the situation and the comfortness of others. 

It's not like that Introverts don't speak. They speak when they feel comfortable with the people around them. Introverts can be extroverts with the right people around them. They may not stop speaking if correct people are with them. Many of the Introverts will definitely agree with me on this.

They will speak when they feel its right time to speak by analyzing the situation and people around them. 

So, my suggestion is that if any introvert friend or relative or anyone related to you is not talking or speaking with you, kindly see and try to figure out by yourself that what are the reasons and problems that you may have because of that your Introverts friends don't speak or talk with you. 

So, this is all for today. 

I will be back soon again with something new next time. 

Reminder: I may not be able to post for next month too. I am having my final exams for this semester next month. So, I will be very busy with study and exam. I am sorry for that.

Thank you pumkins !!

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